Ive been hyperfixating on cleaning/organising, journalling and wedding planning, and I’ve realised I can’t seem to do more than a few of those at a time, cause if I focus on getting social back online, something will fall off that pile and I’ll have to work back up into the rhythm of it again
Medication has been helping, but some things I still struggle with. (I’ll be back soon, I’ll figure it out)
ALTim having a moment
This weekend has been a marathon of wedding dress shopping, at first just for fun and so I could tick it off as 'yep no dress for me, just pants thanks'. But I didn't expect to REALLY love seeing myself in the whole getup, so i guess I'm going traditional afterall lol
It's been exhausting though, emotionally and physically, so I'm still taking it easy and recovering. I'll be back and responding to stuff in a couple days when it's quieter and I'm feeling better.
(I'd share photos but my finance follows me and he'd see them~)
I bought a wedding dress
This weekend has been a marathon of wedding dress shopping, at first just for fun and so I could tick it off as ‘yep no dress for me, just pants thanks’. But I didn’t expect to REALLY love seeing myself in the whole getup, so i guess I’m going traditional afterall lol
It’s been exhausting though, emotionally and physically, so I’m still taking it easy and recovering. I’ll be back and responding to stuff in a couple days when it’s quieter and I’m feeling better.
(I’d share photos but my finance follows me and he’d see them~)
the "tumblr is hard to use 🥺" comment from staff is so funny bc like. its not untrue. but the solution isnt to make everything algorithmic, its to stop hiding the FAQ pages deep inside the site. just like. explain shit to new users. a concept. also obviously just fix the search function
I’ve been making such great progress in the last few weeks, I’ve kept on top of cleaning habits and chipping away at bigger clean up projects, have been fairly energetic even after social events where I’d usually be comatose, and have been planning and journalling, even finally making progress in wedding planning! I feel like that upped dosage has really started helping me, fingers crossed it’s not a fluke!
Though i do need to rest so i dont burn out, so all I planned for today is to catch up online and start downloading my fav fics now that A03 is back online.
Lol even Tumblr has escaped Tumblr and made a Cohost
Okay guys, I was getting a bit stressed with social media on fire, so I took a few weeks break. But I feel better now, and surely things have settled somewhat!
… what do you mean Tumblr is removing reblog chains…
So within two days of each other, Fox News writes an article comparing aromanticism and asexuality to pedophilia, and then Matt Walsh releases a video saying asexuality is a mental illness and asexuals are tricking teenagers into having depression.
Not sure what’s going on right now over in Conservative World, but it’s a hell of wild U-turn for them to suddenly switch from “Oh no! The left is sexualizing our children!” to “Oh no! The left is asexualizing our children!”
It’s a reminder, I guess, that they’re coming for all of us. The fash and the white supremacists will not make nice distinctions between the queers when they put us up against the wall. There is no gatekeeping, no label-policing, no purity-purging and no assimilation that any of us can do that will save us. They want us dead, and while they’ll start with whoever is most vulnerable at any given time, they’ll get around to all of us eventually.
Queer solidarity means all of us because the fash are coming for all of us.
All Dividers are Feds. Stand united or die separately.
ANYONE who is trying to divide our community is a fucking Fed. That includes other queers who like to argue about who is and isn’t “allowed” in our community.
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